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⬇️FREE Meditation

I may not be perfect, but I like who I am. I know

I may not be perfect, but I like who I am.
I know where I’m going.
I’m willing to experience some uncomfortable emotions to get there.
I know that fear, failure, and judgment do not define my worth.
I know who I am.

To me, this is the only difference between people who actually go after their vision and those who don’t.

I’M UNAVAILABLE FOR AVERAGE

My kids are watching.
My Soul has work to do.

Read that again.
➡️I’m UNAVAILABLE for average.

NO excuse is good enough to stand back!

Who’s coming with me? 💃💃💃

(P.S.
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Anyone can ___________________ (insert that thing

Anyone can ___________________ (insert that thing you keep putting off).

-Start a business
-Apply for the prestigious promotion or scholarship
-Move to a new state/country
-Audition for something meaningful
-etc

But here’s the thing:

Most people WON’T.

Why?

Because it’s easier. Safer. “Normal.”

The truth is that most people are completely unwilling to get uncomfortable, much less on purpose.
Most people avoid the possibility of rejection at all costs.
Most people run in the opposite direction of fear.

And that’s okay- it’s not wrong to want life to be familiar & predictable.

But you’re not most people, are you?

You want more than that.
You crave a deep sense of fulfillment and connection.
And you know that you could never be satisfied to look back on your life and wonder what you were actually capable of.

Your soul craves growth.
I know this because mine does too.

And every day I say YES.
Yes to the change.
Yes to the nervous excitement.
Yes to the unlimited and untapped potentials and possibilities.
Yes to stepping out in faith, not knowing all the answers.

I say YES to living more as Spirit than human.

❓Are you coming with???
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I’ll lift you up and give you a loving kick in the *ss when you need it 😉
I’ll help you remember WHO YOU ARE so you can do what you came here to do.

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The truth is that I used to be SO anxious that I c

The truth is that I used to be SO anxious that I couldn’t function.
I didn’t fully trust in life, and I definitely didn’t feel safe.
I second-guessed myself constantly, and I gave my power away to others because I assumed they knew best.
Honestly, I didn’t even know that I HAD such power to speak of.
Every day was just more of the same, doing my best going through the motions, trying to make it to the next day.

Yuck! 🤢

Now, it’s notable when I experience anxiety, because it’s so RARE.
I feel so safe, so valued and so connected to life.
You won’t find me deferring to others anymore. I TRUST MYSELF. Even when it doesn’t make sense.
I take action when I feel afraid.
And- I make my own rules. I know that when I win, everyone wins. “Fitting in” was never the answer.

So what changed??
I GOT TIRED OF MY OWN BULLSH*T. 💁‍♀️
I decided I could love and forgive that version of myself, but that I could also let her go.
I decided to GO ALL IN on my life, because deep down I *always* knew there were far greater plans.

Life will always be life- but I am in FULL control of how I get to experience it. 🙌
I am not a victim.
You are not a victim.
We were not born to live a life of stress and barely getting by!

Deep down, I think you know that’s true.
Or at least you want to believe that it’s true.
Either way, you get to CHOOSE.

The question is, are YOU tired of your own bullsh*t? ⬅️
Are you brave enough to try something different?

It takes full, daily commitment to live differently. I won’t lie.
🌟But it is so FREEING.
The peace. The fulfillment. The unconditional love. The certainty.
It is ALL available to you. You just have to choose it.

And it’s ok to accept help in the process. Because sometimes you may need to borrow someone’s faith while you build your own.

💜Do you want my help and support?

I’m offering a private, daily connection through Voxer to help you implement this new way of being.
Because that’s where the magic is- the moment to moment in your daily life. 🔥
➡️No scheduled calls. No step-by-step formula.
Just personalized laser support where you need it, when you need it. ⬅️
Nothing is off limits.

🚫And also, no sales calls or long contracts.

You can’t put God in a box. God is beyond all d

You can’t put God in a box.

God is beyond all definitions, rules, and ideas.
There is alway more depth.

When we cling too tightly to any of these things (thus creating more division and judgment between people), we shut ourselves off from further experiencing Spirit.
Our growth and understanding becomes severely limited.

🖤An open mind is an open heart🖤

#openheart #openminds #spiritualguidance #spiritjunkies #godsgirl #childofgrace #childofgod

You’re invited! In honor of Mother’s Day I’

You’re invited!

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Do you struggle with stress & overwhelm? Would you

Do you struggle with stress & overwhelm?
Would you like boost your productivity? .
That used to be me- it felt like there was always sooo much to do, and never enough time.
And you know what always got pushed to the bottom?
My business 😭😭
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🔥🔥 I made some simple shifts and things radically changed for me (and my business). 🔥🔥
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If you can relate, give this a read. It's intentionally digestible- I know you already have a lot on your plate 😉 .
Sending you massive love!! You're doing great!!
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Link in bio.😘

~The Emotional Solar Plexus~ If you have this ene

~The Emotional Solar Plexus~

If you have this energy center defined, you are an Emotional Authority.

Raise your hand if this is you 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️ You will experience cyclical waves of emotion that color your perception.
Familiar with the term rose-colored glasses?
That’s exactly how emotional authorities will perceive things, though on the low end of the wave it’s more like 💩 colored glasses. 🤣

Your emotions will be STRONG.
And they absolutely are meant to guide your decisions.
But the trick is to cultivate PATIENCE.
(This won’t be easy, but it will help you so much in the long run!) 🌟🌟You need to give yourself time to move through the ups and downs of your wave before making a decision.🌟🌟
You are not designed to be spontaneous. ➡️Emotional Authorities need TIME.⬅️ This could mean 24 hours, or it could mean several days.
🌟The bigger the decision, the more time you need to give yourself.🌟
You’re aiming to tap into what feels like the right decision over time.
And it won’t always make sense!💁🏼‍♀️
Your logical brain will have a field day with this process, but I urge you to trust it.
Even when it doesn’t make sense at all.

So how do you know if you’re really ready to decide?
100% clarity is not likely for emotional beings (and that’s ok). But there are some telltale signs you can look for:
✅If you are feeling any sense of urgency, then you need more time! (This even applies to urgency created by excitement..sleep on it!)
✅If you are overly nervous about whether or not it’s the right decision, then you need more time. 🔥Correct decisions for the Emotional Authority come from a place of INNER CALM.🔥
No anxiety, no pressure or urgency.
Just a clear feeling that this is the right move.
You don’t need to be able to explain why 😉. Does this help?
Would love to know how this resonates with you ❤️

🌟Resistance and Misalignment are NOT the same t

🌟Resistance and Misalignment are NOT the same thing🌟.
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Yet so many of us have been waiting on clarity & “alignment” to make a move 😬.
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So let’s look a little deeper at resistance vs. misalignment ⬇️.
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🌟RESISTANCE is your ego’s way of keeping you safe.
➡️It can feel like anxiety, fear, a knot in your stomach, etc.
➡️It sounds like “what if..”, or “that won’t work because..” etc.
➡️It looks like procrastination, spinning your wheels, and little to no progress.
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🌟MISALIGNMENT is movement forward, even if it’s not the “right” movement.
➡️It can feel like something is off, or an intuitive feeling that something’s missing. ➡️It can sound like “yeah, but..”, “I don’t know what else..”, or “well I have to do something”.
➡️It looks like messy action, missing the mark, and a constant search for more.
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When we’re experiencing Resistance, weeks (and even months) go by with no significant change (or action) 😭.
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So If this is true for you, no judgment 💜!!
Wherever you’re at is ok, and you always have the chance to choose again.
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🔥The most important thing is that you can take an honest look at where you’re at, and make an empowered decision from there. ❌You weren’t made for inaction❌.
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And you deserve SO much more than waiting and unmet potential 🙌🏻.
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🙋‍♀️Not sure which of these really applies to you?
No worries, I want to help (no strings attached)!
🌟DM me now & say “Alignment” for a quick chat about your scenario.
XoXo
😘

ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO SHOW UP CONSISTENTLY?😓. .

ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO SHOW UP CONSISTENTLY?😓.
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If so, then stay with me, because I got you. 😘
Solution ⬇️
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For a long time, showing up online every day felt like a legit burden!
It was exhausting, and to be honest I resented “having” to do it 🤬.
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But now I actually ENJOY showing up & engaging 🙌🏻. It’s a priority because it’s important to ME.
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Over time I’ve identified a few reasons for WHY we feel this way:
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1️⃣It’s something we’ve been TOLD we HAVE to do.
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Any time we try to fit ourselves into someone else’s mold, our Soul starts to scream at us in protest!!
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And it goes way beyond simply showing up- it shows up in every area of our business.
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And yes, this will feel exhausting!
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📣Solution: Get clear on what & how YOU, as an individual, want to do things.
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When your strategy is unique to you & your innate gifts, it becomes a lot easier (and fun!) to implement consistently.
(Not to mention, your results will be so much better too!).
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🌟The best way to do this is by leveraging your Human Design & Gene Keys, which is exactly what I help my clients with 😉.
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2️⃣We see it as another item on our to-do list.
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📣Solution: choose to see the bigger picture here.
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The online space is truly a gift, because it provides massive OPPORTUNITY to touch the lives of other people across the 🌎.
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This isn’t something we HAVE to do, it’s something we GET to do 🙌🏻.
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🔥There is no limit to the impact we can make, and how far our Soul’s message can reach 🔥.
Be grateful for this incredible gift & use it well!
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3️⃣We’re missing the point when it comes to engagement 🤦‍♀️.
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📣Solution: Building on the last point, we must also look deeper at engaging with others.
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This isn’t about simply boosting visibility or leveraging the algorithm.
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🔥THIS IS ABOUT CONNECTING DEEPLY WITH OTHER PEOPLE🔥.
And that means leaving the surface level comments behind 👏🏻.
➡️Interact with intention! Without actual PEOPLE, your business will not survive.
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🔥And the whole point of your business- your mission- it to HELP PEOPLE🔥.
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So make the most of your engagement time and do exactly that!. .
🌟Serving your purpose can be fulfilling & natural!🌟
➡️Share with a soul sister😘

HOW TO GET OUT OF THE “PLANNING” STAGE, AND GE

HOW TO GET OUT OF THE “PLANNING” STAGE, AND GET INTO ACTION:

This may come off a little saucy, but please hear me out 💁🏼‍♀️. You know that thing you’ve been thinking about, even “planning?”
Yeah…you know the one.
Maybe it’s the new offer swirling around in your head.
Or maybe it’s a complete pivot into a whole new territory 🤭. Whatever it is, it’s in the back of your mind.
And you’re “gonna do it”. Right?
❌But you’re not ready yet.
Because you don’t feel confident enough in yourself, and what you bring to the table. “I’m so new at this” you say.
Or “Sarah is SO successful at this already. I can’t compete with that!”
🔁I just need to practice a little more, or finish this course, or finish the outline of xyz…

And trust me girl, I get you.
Because I was you 🙋‍♀️.
So trust me when I say, that the time is NOW.
➡️You’ll never “feel ready”.
And you have to start somewhere.
So every day you wait just puts more time & distance between you and that dream you have.

But you don’t have to do it alone.
🌟Accountability is the bees knees when it comes to things like this.
Tell people what you’re about to do, like make it public 😉.
Or enlist the support of someone who you know will hold you accountable AND push you out of your comfort zone 🔥.
This could be a soul sister, or a mentor.
You have options. 👏🏻But take that first step👏🏻. Seriously, girl.
People are waiting on you to step up so you can help them🙏.
You’ll be ready when you DECIDE.
Perfection is never necessary.
Do you have someone who holds you accountable?
Let me know in the comments! ⬇️